Me, Myself and I: My Fantastic Mr Fox

It is always a war of becoming; and here is a mirror that doesn’t lie.

It’s not always the world that stands in our way. Most times, it’s ourselves; Me, Myself, and I. We often fantasize about being “Mr. Fantastic,” capable of bending reality to our dreams, or “Mr. Fox,” sly and strategic enough to escape the traps or tests life sets for us. But when we strip back the masks and bravado, what we often find underneath is a person caught in a silent battle; one that plays out in the mind, where the real demons live.

What follows is more than just an article, blog or even a distant memory. It’s a moment, a mirror, and maybe even a message.

The Few Minutes That Changed Everything

Once in a while you take a few minutes to yourself. Just a few, to breathe, chill or just re energise. Sometimes, it goes much deeper than that as you delve into reflection and in some cases. It’s these few minutes that become the longest of your subconscious self.

Here, you’re fully aware. No alarms, no crises; just silence and a surge of realization that knocks out your breath. You think you aren’t where you want to be in life and it gets worse. You know exactly why.

It is you. You are the problem.

Not just society. Not just the economy. Not even the circumstances you were born into. You seem to be the problem even in cases where you are the bystander.

You just experienced a rude awakening and it was not the kind that comes with blaring sirens, but the type that echoes in the pit of your soul. It wasn’t even new information. Deep down, you always knew. But denial is a comfortable pillow, until you wake up choking on it.

There you are, sitting in your comfort place, staring into the void of your thoughts, you finally admit it: You are the architect of your delay. The gatekeeper of your own greatness. The saboteur of your own success.
In the slim chance you feel it’s not even you, you hold onto bits and pieces that tend to.
And just like that, the mental battle begins.

The Real War Is Mental

We often glorify external struggles. We talk about “the grind,” “the hustle,” “the competition.” But nobody tells you that the most dangerous opponent you’ll ever face is the voice in your head that whispers:
“You’re not good enough.”
“You’ll fail like before.”
“What’s the point in trying?”
This voice doesn’t scream. It seduces. It’s not a monster under the bed; it is the bed. Warm, familiar, and hard to leave.
At that moment, you realize: this battle is not between me and the world; it’s between me, myself and I. And the outcome was clear: either I win or I perish.

A Story Worth Telling: Mr. Fox Meets Mr. Fantastic

Let me take you into a metaphorical world; one I created in my mind as I wrestled with these thoughts. Maybe you’ll see yourself in it too.
Mr. Fantastic was everything I wanted to be; driven, disciplined, daring. He had vision, power, and clarity. The world bent to his will because he bent himself first.

Mr. Fox, on the other hand, was clever. He could find a shortcut to anything. He was charming, smooth-talking, always with an excuse or a clever reason to avoid discomfort. He never really failed; because he never really tried. He always slipped away before things got serious.

Here’s the catch: both live inside me.
Every time I set a goal, Mr. Fantastic would rise, ready to conquer. But just before he made progress, Mr. Fox would whisper, “Take a break. You’ve done enough. You deserve it”
When discipline came knocking, Mr. Fox would answer the door with distractions, social media, overthinking, procrastination dressed as productivity breaks.
For years, Mr. Fox ran the show.
Until a few minutes of awakening.

That’s when I realized: one of them has to die or at least be subdued.

So What Next?

You are your own worst enemy but that also makes you your greatest weapon. If you can conquer your thoughts, you can conquer anything.

The battle is constant.

You don’t overcome self-doubt once. It creeps back in, disguised as comfort, comparison, or fear.
You need to choose, every day.
Will it be Mr. Fantastic, who takes the hard road to a better life?
Or Mr. Fox, who slips into comfort and calls it “self-care”?

Every time you say "I’ll do it tomorrow," Are you making a deal with a demon in disguise?

The realization isn’t the transformation.

That moment? It wasn’t a win. It was the beginning.
The real work comes after the realization, the daily dying of the old self.

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